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My lucky break has arrived! One of my many, many job applications lead to an interview which lead to the contract signing a month ago. I finally had someone who was willing to take a chance on me. The only downside? The job was not only very part-time, but it was contract work. There was no salary nor benefits involved. The hours I got were determined by how many clients I could juggle and the locations changed every day as I had to visit clients in their homes or at local meeting places. It also was only slightly related to my desired field, but I was desperate. So begins the story of my first side-hustle.

The term "side-hustle" recently became quite common as a reference to the various part-time and contractual work Millennials are force to take on to supplement their income while searching for, or while even maintaining, full-time work. The cost-of-living is so astronomical that many young workers have to take on a couple side-hustles alongside their full-time work just to keep food on their table or the lights on. Now, other generations have had to take on one or two extra jobs before, why is "side-hustle" any different? 

Past generations generally got to rely on well-paid, with benefits, full-time work which fully covered their cost-of-living and they would take on a part-time job if they wanted some extra spending money. Others would work two or three part-time jobs to make-up for the lack of a full-time job due to lacking qualifications and/or higher education. The key difference here is the Millennial job market is saturated with qualified and highly-educated workers who can't find full-time work that covers their cost-of-living. Worse yet, that's if we can even find a full-time position. These full-time jobs are so elusive, that when a posting for one does appear it often gets thousands of applications. Thus, when we realize that we have to take any work we can get, including short-term positions, the market responds accordingly.

Currently, many companies only offer contractual positions that last three to six months, from which we then have to jump ship to find another way to keep the lights on. Short-term positions allow corporations to not offer benefits or worry about paying salary level wages, this saves them money and perpetuates the idea that short-term work is good for business. Contract work is now abundant and many Millennials find themselves working on a few different contracts at once just to afford the basics. This is where the term "side-hustle" comes in. We'll generally have a contract or a job that is our main time-sink, it produces the most money so it gets the most time commitment, and then any other smaller jobs that fill in the gaps of our budgets are consider side-hustles because we have to use what little spare time we have to hustle and earn more money. With the rising cost of rent and lack of full-time work, this is the harsh reality that young job-seekers face.

I was certainly tired of my job-hunt by the time I signed the contract on my first side-hustle. While it was definitely going to make my bank account a little healthier, but I still had to continue my search for full-time work. Job-hunting feels like my eternal struggle, but I'm glad to know it's a generational problem. I'm not alone in this and I just have to fight hard to find my place. The scary part is that I'm not sure whether I'll have to hold down three contracts just to make a living.

Dana~
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Baking, shopping, wrapping, decorating...Job hunting?

My December has been busier than I expected. Aside from putting together my gift gathering lists and fretting over handmade presents (why, oh why did I decide to do crafts?), I have been building up my job search. 

There are always new postings as the year comes to a close. Companies want new staff in for the new year, which means the hiring has to happen before the holidays. It was actually a pleasant surprise how many calls I got in the first week of December. Normally I'll send out 20 applications and get one or two calls if I'm lucky. This time around I had at least six calls that week, some just for phone interviews, others to arrange in-person meetings. The most promising interview will fall on the Winter Solstice, and I have high hopes for it. The work-life balance sounds fantastic and it's in a great area. The other calls all have their own merit and I look forward to whatever comes next.

 Maybe my present this year will be a shiny new career. Wouldn't that be lovely to find under the tree?

~Dana.
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It's never a positive thing when someone rejects you. It may not even be a personal thing, but it sure does feel like it. The gut-wrenching agony of knowing your best just isn't good enough. It's a dreadful feeling to be told you aren't wanted, even in the politest of terms it's down right awful. Unfortunately, it has to happen over and over again.

Job hunting isn't easy. Not in this economy, not in this city even. Competition is fierce and money is always running short. Few companies are willing to train anyone, so they demand entry level applicants already have experience. That way they don't have to waste money on training. Unfortunately, it blocks a lot of young people from getting hired and starting their careers. No one gives us a chance because it's too much money and too much risk. I try not to blame employers, they have businesses to run. It's hard not to cast blame though, when I look at my very empty bank account and try to find something to keep myself occupied while I wait for the next phone call. Sometimes it's weeks or months before I get another. Sometimes they'll have me trek all the way into the city for an interview, paying peak transit fares, only to never call me back not even to reject me. I spend money to see these people, and they don't even have the courtesy to send a template email saying they were sorry. They can't be bothered.

I get it, life and business are a flurry of things to do and people to see. I'd like to help and be a part of that world. So I'll smile and do my best to make an amazing impression. When, or if, they call me to say I didn't get the job I'm still in professional mode. I greet them warmly, respond positively and act as graciously as humanly possible. It's only decent and I want to present my most professional self even in a difficult moment. So when someone tells me over the phone that I'm not good enough, that they found someone better, I thank them kindly. I wish them and their business well while offering my gratitude for even the tiny chance at a job. It's unfortunate, but now in these tough times I'm grateful for even a polite rejection.

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I have always heard that once you hit rock bottom, you can only go upwards. I took that to mean that when everything goes wrong and I have to start over, that I will eventually be able to bring good things back into my life. Effort would be required, as it always is, but I would still find happiness. I clung to this ideal when life got rough this year.

Then, on one of my darkest days, something surprising happened. A positive and optimistic presence entered my life. The tears stopped. The frustration melted away. The hurt faded. In time, all that was wrong finally started to become a memory. This good influence on my life gave me the strength to believe in hope again. I remembered what it was like to be honestly happy, and not wearing the facade of happiness while I juggled emotional hurt and general frustration with life below the surface.

I'm not saying the new presence caused my happiness, I do not need to rely on something or someone outside of myself to be happy. What happened was that positivity reminded me about all that is good in life and all the good I have to look forward to in my future. By coming to terms with whats happened and remembering I have more to do as I move forward, I was able to find peace with myself and ultimately find my own happiness again. Hello, personal joy, I missed you. I won't let negativity steal away my awesome optimism and internal contentment. It's a lot more fun this way.

Dana~
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Money doesn't grow on trees, especially when you're job hunting. So when I'm given a gift card or even a small bit of money, I save it like crazy. Okay, more like unhealthily hoarding it.

For example, I got a Steam gift card the other week. Now, I've wanted to purchase new games for ages to pass the time between writing job applications. There are so many good looking games out there. Unfortunately, I'm picky when it comes to my games and money nowadays. I only spend money on games with replay value. That's it. If I can't keep coming back to a game and enjoying a new experience, it isn't worth the money to me. Especially if it's over $15.

So when I got home and entered my code into my Steam account, I excitedly surfed the shop for something new to play. I referenced my wishlist and looked at all recommendations. I was even about to buy a few. Then that damn little voice in my head said, "Wait! You'll regret it."

"But how could I? It's got great reviews!" I contested.

My conscious was unwavering, "No, you'll be bored of it in a day. Forget it."

Thus, I didn't buy any games. It's always been like this. I save all my money for a day where I desperately need it, even though it's usually money I've been waiting to use for something specific. I remember saving my lunch money in college thinking there'd be a day when I really needed it to go out or something. This was despite the fact I was starving between classes all semester and that I never went out on the town anyways.

So the gift card sits unused and unloved. I still return to games I love with replay value. The Sims 3 is always a favourite and can be different each play through. I've also found myself a fan of Kitty Power's Matchmaker on Steam. The British humor and slang gives me waves of nostalgia.

Still, I wish I weren't so prudent and responsible with my money. It'd be nice to have fun for a change.

Dana~
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So my dream of living abroad has come to an end. After much hesitation, I decided I just couldn't handle it anymore. I was sick all the time, jobless and stressed out. There was too much drama in my living situation that the normal stress of my poor health and my endless job hunt were amplified. So I packed my bags, apologized to my partner and flew home. I was uncertain where I stood with my partner. I told him I'd try to come back. But I don't know. I need to find myself and get well before any decisions are made.

For now I'm so happy to be home. I'm enjoying Canadian food that doesn't make me sick and spending time with my family. I get to retire to my own bed with it's soft memory foam mattress. Yes, I miss my partner, but I know I need this. My anxieties need to clear up and I must get my health back. I hated making this choice. However, my mood improvement already shows I chose correctly.

So, after only four months...My life abroad is over. Still, I learned a lot about myself and how to be independent. I can cook for myself and I'm comfortable doing so. I know how to shop efficiently and search out deals. I can manage all household chores and keep up with bills. This adventure has given me so many life skills. Better still, I found out what it was like to live with a partner for the first time as well as what it's like to live on very little money. I do not regret the move one iota.

Dana~

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As a professional communicator and language tutor with a flair for the creative, I love writing. I grew from a humble fan fiction writer into a published author of a quirky coffee-table book. Though my journey has had a few hiccups along the way, like my Fibromyalgia diagnosis, what's an adventure without a few detours?

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